“I don’t know” “It’s so confusing” “There are so many options” I want to suggest you do know! You know exactly what you want and what you don’t want. You just don’t want to take action on it because you are afraid. You are either afraid of what will happen if you take action or it …
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“I’m right on track.”
It’s true this doesn’t come naturally to me but I do remind myself that I am not behind on where I should be in life. I am exactly where I should be, doing exactly what I should be doing, right on time. A big sigh of relief! Nowhere to rush, all is going well. Press …
What Worked Well, always goes first
What worked well. WWW My coach has me do evaluations of my coaching sessions with my clients. Before I get into what didn’t work well I always start with what worked well. This has been so powerful for me to do on coaching, networking events, tennis tournaments and now that I’m seeing the results of …
SHAME IS OPTIONAL!
Shame is an option. Here’s how it plays out. You can either hide and pretend that everything is fine after having a rough morning with the kids but inside you are crying. You are so ashamed of your own behaviour that you can’t possibly imagine sharing it with anyone. The extent to how much you …
What if this was always part of the deal?
What if you were always going to face this challenge right now ? How differently would you approach it? Your kid was always supposed to have 7 cavities in one visit. Your car was always going to break down 4 times and each time they said they fixed it, they were wrong. What if you …
I’m a good/bad mom
According to my 3 year old you can be a good mama and a bad mama. What a relief! Did you know about this? 😉 • My 3 year old: “Mama, you’re a good mama.” • Me: “Really? Even after I yelled at your brother “ Him: “Yes, you was a bad mama when you …