“I don’t know” “It’s so confusing” “There are so many options” I want to suggest you do know! You know exactly what you want and what you don’t want. You just don’t want to take action on it because you are afraid. You are either afraid of what will happen if you take action or it …
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“I’m right on track.”
It’s true this doesn’t come naturally to me but I do remind myself that I am not behind on where I should be in life. I am exactly where I should be, doing exactly what I should be doing, right on time. A big sigh of relief! Nowhere to rush, all is going well. Press …
AND IT’S OKAY.
Here’s a fun thing to try on this weekend. Whenever you catch yourself sharing or complaining or straight out stating a problem – add. “AND IT’S OKAY” at the end. Just try it on for fun. I am tired. And it’s okay. It’s been such a long week. And it’s okay. I’m single parenting this …
I love me anyway!
I love me anyway. . This is what I practiced all through out the Christmas break. . As my brain continued to tell me how bad I am at taking care of the kids, or being in social situations, or showing love for my husband, or stuffing my face with desert. . “I love me …
One more thing
I have added one more thing to my morning routine and it is gratitude, and already I am seeing the world through a different lense. This a moment from a dance party we have each night after dinner (while one of the boys does the dishes and I put away the food). I found myself …
It’s Okay to want what you want!
What if you can just be happy with what you have AND want more? And it’s okay to want more ? And you don’t need a reason or justification for wanting it. You can just want it because you want it. That’s it. Because it’s fun and you want to experience it. Enjoy what you …
You can’t feel other people’s love.
Did you know you can’t feel other people’s love? . I know it’s crazy but also amazing!! . Here is how it works. . Your kid says “I love you mama” with his puppy eyes. . You don’t feel anything until you think “aaaawe he really loves me”. . Thinking this creates a feeling of …
Entitlement
I had a total tantrum yesterday, in my head, and then later at my husband, about the same thing. I was so frustrated with finding and figuring out a template for my ebook! I expected it to be easy, fast and fun! How wrong was I!!! It was harder for me than writing a book!!!! …
I’M SO BUSY!
What if we eliminated ‘so busy’ from our vocabulary??? Whenever I tell anyone I have 4 boys, 99% of people react “wow, you must be so busy!”. Although there is definitely truth in it, I never choose to say that about my life. Why? Because I feel extremely overwhelmed when I think that and there …
You don’t HAVE to LIVE!
Did you know you don’t HAVE to do anything?? You don’t have to go to work. You don’t have to take care of your family. You DON’T have to pay taxes, contrary to popular belief. You don’t have to be a good person. You don’t have to brush your teeth. Sure, there will be consequences, …