I’m working on ‘cultivating’ being me because that is what gets me the life i want by attracting people who want my help.
Yes i want to help people but i also want this for ME, helping people is FOR ME, i have fun with it, i feel good when i do it, i expand my comfort zone and skills and push myself. ALL of it is for me.
I want you to do the same.
Because really what you and I both want is not that much different.
We both want to feel in control of our life, to feel love, to be confident, to have FUN, to have all the things we want in life.
The path there is being the most US we can be.
If I am the most ME I can be then that also means i have accepted all of my flaws, and i am loving all the great parts of me. I am USING them to create and build the life i want.
If you are the MOST YOU you can be then that means the exact same thing – showing the world ALL parts of you.
And i don’t mean showing everyone on instagram like I do, no, it may mean coming to terms with being judgmental of your husband and no longer blaming him for how you feel. Saying to him ‘i have this thing i’m insecure about and it often comes out when i think of you, i am working on it. it has nothing to do with you, it’s all me and my work.’
Now that is super powerful, you are not beating yourself up for doing it and you are also NOT hiding it.
It is what it is and you know you are working on it and it’s okay.
That is what i mean when i say you love ALL of you, all of your judgements, all of the mess ups, all of it. It also means you get better at seeing all the amazing sides you.
We often wait to get rid of our flaws to fully embrace our strengths but that only dulls them. Embracing both is MAGIC.
Because you are not shaming yourself about judging you are so much lighter and you laugh and enjoy yourself when you feel great! nothing is holding you back! You are YOU at all times.
So cultivate being YOU in all the ways.
If you see me share something vulnerable do the same with yourself – share one thing you wish was different about you – even with just yourself – just so you make peace with it.
I hear ‘love yourself’ a lot.
But here’s the specific how – take one thing you don’t like about yourself now and chose it as part of your brand, that’s what makes you YOU and that is what the world needs – your husband and kids need you EXACTLY the way you are. THAT is the way to loving yourself.
WE need you to be MORE YOUl
P.S. My mom and I used to fight like crazy all our life UNTIL i did this work and changed our relationship dramatically! So dramatically that i was able to coach her without judgement!
Here’s what my mom says about working with me one on one:
“Natalia helped me solve little problems in life but by doing that work I got my confidence in my life that I have always wanted. I started trusting myself, others, my work, and it’s a big deal for me.
Natalia showed me where I was not being honest with myself.
My relationship with myself is the most important to me. And all the things I am able to do now are the result of that.
Natalia was the catalyst in learning to trust myself and be more confident. I had all the knowledge and read all the books. What she gave me made it all work.”
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