What I learned from Cesar Millan. That my energy matters when I’m with the boys. If I am indicisive they will feel it and be anxious if I have not given them direction or expectations. I am their leader. Bad one, so so one, tired one, whatever one but I am still their leader so oi can …
“Having fun” Is a SKILL
I needed more ‘fun’ in my life and i made a list that i find fun in my life and it blew me away because the things that are fun are completetly independent of the things that i am doing. It is all about what lens i put on when i’m doing them:– giving– problem …
Intentional Focusing
Feeling shitty no matter how much you are doing. No matter how much I do it’s not enoughTo stop not noticing all the things you are doing. It’s never ending. I do one things and 10 more get added to my list. Focusing better. Feeling better. Instead of saying fav part of the day and …
Fear behind anger
Understanding why you are angry will help you and this is how you do it. You ask yourself this one question, approach it form this angle to understand why you are angry.
“No one else gets this angry at their kids”
If you think you are the only one yelling this badly at your kids then this episode is for you. When you are believing you are the only one who yells at kids, drinks too much, eats too much or shops too much then you are shaming yourself and that just blocks any access to that …
Here is what getting hacked taught me
Hear my example of how my experience was changed based on one new piece of information / thought/ sentence and changed my whole experience. Apply this to all your relationships and you will skip the fighting.
Best case/ Worst Case
If you are stuck worrying about a problem this is for you! listen up. You can also watch me here in my office recording this episode.Asking yourself these 2 questions and a bonus question that naturally appears after you answer the first 2 will help you tremendously!
Lying to your son
I was people pleasing my son, wait, no, i was lying to my son and here is what happened.If you are people pleasing others and they are STILL not happy then listen to this. Stop pleasing them by telling then lies. Start telling yourself the truth and start telling them the truth and take the responsibility to …
Arbitrary rules that cause us suffering
If you are suffering because of what other people are doing or not doing then this episode is for you. You will learn what causes the suffering, you will listen to 3 examples of arbitrary rules that I had in my life that caused me some suffering and it will give you a chance to …
“I’m bored, everything is the same”
Boredom and nothingness is a perfect ground to want things from. What you want matters a lot and you need to stop Doubting it and starting paying attention to it.