I used to resent having to do all the things i have to do as a mom and it robbed me to enjoying being a mom. I’m not saying i enjoy it all the time but i definitely spend more of my time in the ‘i want to do this’ than not.
Try these on for you and if you need help tweaking them to you or help addressing some of the arguments you have against these i would love to help you overcome them SO that you can enjoy it more.