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Why get coached?

Listening to my podcast is listening to my thoughts and Ido encourage that, I have collected a few useful ones about relationships and you should definitely borrow them!But getting coached is time where you have a chance to look at YOUR thoughts and that is an opportunity for you to change them and change your …

AND IT’S OKAY.

Here’s a fun thing to try on this weekend. Whenever you catch yourself sharing or complaining or straight out stating a problem – add. “AND IT’S OKAY” at the end. Just try it on for fun. I am tired. And it’s okay. It’s been such a long week. And it’s okay. I’m single parenting this …

I love me anyway!

I love me anyway. . This is what I practiced all through out the Christmas break. . As my brain continued to tell me how bad I am at taking care of the kids, or being in social situations, or showing love for my husband, or stuffing my face with desert. . “I love me …

What is his job?

I’m going to bed. It’s just my husband and I in our first house before we had kids and we just finished watching one of the shows we love. My husband says “I’ll be right up.” . I know what this “right up”means. It means he’s going to stay up for another hour and I …

Failure is just a feeling

I said I will do something and I didn’t. That’s the math of the situation. . The drama of the situation is I feel like a failure. . Separate the math and the drama. Math is always simple and neutral. Drama is always charged and dramatic lol:) . The morning fight with your kid: Math …

Let what’s true be true

“If we beat ourselves up for our truth it’s like an assault. Just let what’s true be true.” -Brooke Castillo So often I notice myself getting frustrated with myself because of what’s true for me. I see the same with my clients and friends. It feel terrible and keeps us stuck in the loop where …

Slouching = failure, obviously!

New year, new homework from my life coach. I sit down to write. Here is what I find out. I believe I am tired, i am convinced I do things half-ass and I definitely slouch. Not only do I believe the thoughts above but I think them on repeat, many times a day and feel terrible about …

I love all humans.

“I love all humans.” My coach says that sometimes. That is why I think she is so successful. I notice it when I judge people. I notice how it’s preventing me from connecting with them and helping them. I notice it when I am able to connect and love all of the human experience I …

Cure for ‘cancer’.

You guys, I literally feel as If I have a cure for cancer because when someone comes to me and says ‘I don’t think I have the ability to love or have good relationships’  – I CAN HELP THEM. They think it’s terminal and they are born that way and nothing can change and I …