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Why get coached?

Listening to my podcast is listening to my thoughts and Ido encourage that, I have collected a few useful ones about relationships and you should definitely borrow them!But getting coached is time where you have a chance to look at YOUR thoughts and that is an opportunity for you to change them and change your …

Pain is not a problem.

What? I wish my coach told me that last weekend. I have been struggling with the headache for a while now. But to be honest it is a lot easier when we stop fighting the pain and stop avoiding it and resisting it. Whether it is your head or your emotional pain over your relationship …

AM I THE RIGHT COACH FOR YOU?

What specifically do you help with? I get this question a lot and so I decided to share that here with you. I can help you if you: Are struggling in a relationship with your kid/parent/spouse/sibling/close one.   You tried everything but nothing works and you are feeling sad and hopeless whenever you think about …

I’m a good/bad mom

According to my 3 year old you can be a good mama and a bad mama. What a relief! Did you know about this? 😉 • My 3 year old: “Mama, you’re a good mama.” • Me: “Really? Even after I yelled at your brother “ Him: “Yes, you was a bad mama when you …

But it’s true!

A lot of my clients say “but it’s true!”. So what ? Does that mean you need to think that in your head over and over again ? What is the upside of thinking something that is true that is also creating frustration and resentment? None that I can see. What does serve me here …

Leave space

Tired thoughts. Spruce Meadows yesterday. We came, we saw the marching band who has been practicing in our neighbourhood for the least few weeks. I felt excited to see these high school kids perform. They have grown on me. I love seeing all the high school kids or university students who are camp leaders for …

Summer Planning

You really do need to plan MORE in summer and FOR summer. The bigger the chunk of ‘free’ time you have the more you have to plan. I keep saying it over and over again and I keep finding more and more proof for it. I spent almost 2 hours yesterday morning getting help from …

What is Self-Confidence?

It is the ability and willingness to feel any feeling. You are self-confident if you are not afraid to feel • fear • failure • embarrassment • humiliation • isolation What is the worst that can happen in life? – death – loss – humiliation – divorce – decease – rejection – embarrassment   What …

Feeling Appreciated

(the picture here is from a few years back when I had 2 kids and haven’t yet learned to appreciate myself and all I do.  I am so grateful to myself for figuring out how to appreciate myself. You can too! Can you see the look in my eye, happiness and victimhood all in one?) …