I’m going to bed. It’s just my husband and I in our first house before we had kids and we just finished watching one of the shows we love. My husband says “I’ll be right up.” . I know what this “right up”means. It means he’s going to stay up for another hour and I …
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Failure is just a feeling
I said I will do something and I didn’t. That’s the math of the situation. . The drama of the situation is I feel like a failure. . Separate the math and the drama. Math is always simple and neutral. Drama is always charged and dramatic lol:) . The morning fight with your kid: Math …
Let what’s true be true
“If we beat ourselves up for our truth it’s like an assault. Just let what’s true be true.” -Brooke Castillo So often I notice myself getting frustrated with myself because of what’s true for me. I see the same with my clients and friends. It feel terrible and keeps us stuck in the loop where …
Slouching = failure, obviously!
New year, new homework from my life coach. I sit down to write. Here is what I find out. I believe I am tired, i am convinced I do things half-ass and I definitely slouch. Not only do I believe the thoughts above but I think them on repeat, many times a day and feel terrible about …
Entitlement
I had a total tantrum yesterday, in my head, and then later at my husband, about the same thing. I was so frustrated with finding and figuring out a template for my ebook! I expected it to be easy, fast and fun! How wrong was I!!! It was harder for me than writing a book!!!! …
I’M SO BUSY!
What if we eliminated ‘so busy’ from our vocabulary??? Whenever I tell anyone I have 4 boys, 99% of people react “wow, you must be so busy!”. Although there is definitely truth in it, I never choose to say that about my life. Why? Because I feel extremely overwhelmed when I think that and there …
You don’t HAVE to LIVE!
Did you know you don’t HAVE to do anything?? You don’t have to go to work. You don’t have to take care of your family. You DON’T have to pay taxes, contrary to popular belief. You don’t have to be a good person. You don’t have to brush your teeth. Sure, there will be consequences, …
The Universe is friendly.
This morning I had a perfect window between groceries and the dentist to pick up my new glasses. I arrived early, before the glasses office was open and I sat in the car happily listening to my podcast. I knew I had 15 minutes from when the store opens to when my dentist appointment begins. …
This is what success feels like.
Friday, I get off the call with my client and I am overcome with this awe of what just happened. My client tells me how their life has changed, their relationship with themselves has shifted, it has become better. The relationships with their close ones has changed. Their life is not perfect but what once …
There is NO THERE!
It won’t be any better THERE. Once I get that promotion I can relax. Once I find a spouse then everything will be okay. Once I stop loosing my shit with the kids then I can really take care of myself. Once I make money then I can have the life that I want. Once I …