Make a deal with yourself that no matter what is going on externally or internally you will talk nice to yourself through it and after it. Then do exactly that. Have your own back. That starts now with exactly what your life looks like already, no matter how far it is from what you want …
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“I’m right on track.”
It’s true this doesn’t come naturally to me but I do remind myself that I am not behind on where I should be in life. I am exactly where I should be, doing exactly what I should be doing, right on time. A big sigh of relief! Nowhere to rush, all is going well. Press …
AND IT’S OKAY.
Here’s a fun thing to try on this weekend. Whenever you catch yourself sharing or complaining or straight out stating a problem – add. “AND IT’S OKAY” at the end. Just try it on for fun. I am tired. And it’s okay. It’s been such a long week. And it’s okay. I’m single parenting this …
I love me anyway!
I love me anyway. . This is what I practiced all through out the Christmas break. . As my brain continued to tell me how bad I am at taking care of the kids, or being in social situations, or showing love for my husband, or stuffing my face with desert. . “I love me …
I have SO much more time!
Breakthrough An amazing thing has happened ! I feel now that I have more time then ever with my little twins !!! Which is incredible considering where I started. I used to be home with them and then working part time. I took them grocery shopping with me , to their gymnastics, put them for …
What is his job?
I’m going to bed. It’s just my husband and I in our first house before we had kids and we just finished watching one of the shows we love. My husband says “I’ll be right up.” . I know what this “right up”means. It means he’s going to stay up for another hour and I …
It’s Okay to want what you want!
What if you can just be happy with what you have AND want more? And it’s okay to want more ? And you don’t need a reason or justification for wanting it. You can just want it because you want it. That’s it. Because it’s fun and you want to experience it. Enjoy what you …
You can’t feel other people’s love.
Did you know you can’t feel other people’s love? . I know it’s crazy but also amazing!! . Here is how it works. . Your kid says “I love you mama” with his puppy eyes. . You don’t feel anything until you think “aaaawe he really loves me”. . Thinking this creates a feeling of …
Failure is just a feeling
I said I will do something and I didn’t. That’s the math of the situation. . The drama of the situation is I feel like a failure. . Separate the math and the drama. Math is always simple and neutral. Drama is always charged and dramatic lol:) . The morning fight with your kid: Math …
Let what’s true be true
“If we beat ourselves up for our truth it’s like an assault. Just let what’s true be true.” -Brooke Castillo So often I notice myself getting frustrated with myself because of what’s true for me. I see the same with my clients and friends. It feel terrible and keeps us stuck in the loop where …