What if we eliminated ‘so busy’ from our vocabulary??? Whenever I tell anyone I have 4 boys, 99% of people react “wow, you must be so busy!”. Although there is definitely truth in it, I never choose to say that about my life. Why? Because I feel extremely overwhelmed when I think that and there …
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People Pleasers are Liars!
My coach Brook Castillo says People Pleasers Are Liars. Here’s how she explains it. Whenever you say yes to doing something or pretend to be someone who you think “they” want you to be even thought you really don’t want to do that thing and you are not that person at all – you are …
I’m a good/bad mom
According to my 3 year old you can be a good mama and a bad mama. What a relief! Did you know about this? 😉 • My 3 year old: “Mama, you’re a good mama.” • Me: “Really? Even after I yelled at your brother “ Him: “Yes, you was a bad mama when you …
But it’s true!
A lot of my clients say “but it’s true!”. So what ? Does that mean you need to think that in your head over and over again ? What is the upside of thinking something that is true that is also creating frustration and resentment? None that I can see. What does serve me here …
100% worthy
I’m 100% worthy. I did not believe that. I used to beat myself up after yelling at my son. I thought I must be a horrible, horrible person. A monster. How can anyone be a good person when they get so angry at their kid. I used to be so angry at myself for yelling …
“This was always supposed to happen.”
“This was always supposed to happen.” Is what I told my client the other day. When we have something that has happened in our life, our past and we are not happy about we tend to argue with it. But when we argue with reality we loose 100% of the time. I Love, Love, Love …
Kid wants to read my blog
Tyler just sat down beside me and wanted to be with me while I write my blog. I explained that this is grow up stuff and he’s not a grown up so therefore he needs to give me space for 15mins. I don’t think he was too impressed with these answers. But truthfully I need …
She is Amazing
I have this friend. She is amazing. I have a few friends who are amazing but I will just tell you about one today. Here’s why. Her realm of whats possible to do is so much bigger than mine, so it always amazes me. “How can you do that ?” I always think. “Is that …
I’m over it.
I just bought my eldest some t-shirts today, size 10-12. He’s not 10 yet, 8 but you know how they are always bigger than the sizes. I wasn’t sad at all that he’s growing up, quit excited in fact. Each stage is so fun and each age unlocks many more things we can do with …
I’m writing a book.
Have I told you guys that I’m writing a book? Yep. I am that person who thinks they can write a book and then sits down and writes a book. I am currently 7 days in , 7 pages done. I write every day for a little bit, up to 30 mins. I am really …