“Having fun” Is a SKILL

I needed more ‘fun’ in my life and i made a list that i find fun in my life and it blew me away because the things that are fun are completetly independent of the things that i am doing.  It is all about what lens i put on when i’m doing them:– giving– problem …

Intentional Focusing

Feeling shitty no matter how much you are doing. No matter how much I do it’s not enoughTo stop not noticing all the things you are doing. It’s never ending.  I do one things and 10 more get added to my list.  Focusing better.  Feeling better. Instead of saying fav part of the day and …

Best case/ Worst Case

If you are stuck worrying about a problem this is for you! listen up. You can also watch me here in my office recording this episode.Asking yourself these 2 questions and a bonus question that naturally appears after you answer the first 2 will help you tremendously!

Lying to your son

I was people pleasing my son, wait, no, i was lying to my son and here is what happened.If you are people pleasing others and they are STILL not happy then listen to this. Stop pleasing them by telling then lies. Start telling yourself the truth and start telling them the truth and take the responsibility to …

When you don’t recognize yourself

If you are feeling sorry for yourself and forgot why you ever wanted kids or be married or this job – do this exercise and change your mind and your feeling deliberately.  Remind yourself of all the reasons why you wanted it in the first place. This exercise was inspired by Abraham, from the book “Ask …