Nobody else can do that for you. This is great news. You don’t have to rely on them to do that! You can’t control what they do anyway! why would you want to put them in charge of how you feel!
Your husband, your son, your mom – are not the ones making you happy or sad. The words you are thinking in your head are. That’s it.
Filling each other’s bucket is a myth. It’s not possible to fill other peoples buckets.
You can’t go inside their head and think thoughts that create happiness. Only THEY can do that.
The same way THEY can’t go into YOUR head and put thoughts in your head.
You have your bucket. They have theirs. And we are all here together only to feel LOVE for each other.