We used to butt heads A LOT!
He is just like me in so many ways!
I used to get angry at him when he was getting angry at me or at his brothers.
“Why can’t he just be happy like his brother?” I used to think.
I used to be frustrated just thinking of picking him up from school or putting him to bed.
I wasn’t looking forward to our daily struggle.
That even sounds so strange to me when I’m writing it now because we are in such a better place today!
He hugs me whenever he can.
I am able to look at him and love him and appreciate all that he is going through and especially when he is frustrated.
He hasn’t changed one bit.
I haven’t changed one bit.
But my thinking has changed so dramatically that our relationship is completely transformed.
This is the picture from our hike on the weekend where he is hugging me and it is the best moment ever.
He also told me the other night “you’re the best” and that was a little cherry on top of how great things are now.
This type of transformation is available to you in your relationships with your partners, parents, kids or friends.
This is the best work I have ever done and I would love to share it with you !